Men
Debido a las recientes quejas de mis compañeros/compañeras angloparlantes, me siento con la obligación de escribir un post en inglés. Insisto que deben aprender español, pero bueno…
It just can't be!! I'm perplexed! I would like to know why God created men --- or the so called "men." Maybe it was just to complicate women's lives. Don't get me wrong -- I like men, I love men, but yet -- they confuse me! They, they're just so... so ...
Today I had a conversation with a friend after he read my away messge on the AIM that said: "I don't understand men. I don't understand school. Is it b/c they're both full of sH1t. Yeah...I think that's why. Where are the REAL MEN out there?!" Apparently he took offense to my message, then he pretended to teach me about guys and love! Haaaa!
He defended his position as a male & said that not all men are azzhols & that there are many nice men out there. It's just that girlz go for the "hot" guyz not the good onez because the "hot" guys are the azzholz and the girlz like to be mistreated & hurt. Of course I said that's bull -- we grlz don't enjoy mistreated! I argued that a lot of men act nice in the beginning but in reality most are azzhols in the inside. You just never know until you get to know them for some time. They only act nice until they have you in the palm of their hands and baaaamm! -- they do whatever they want to do with you and you can't do anything about it. In most relationships, I believe, one person usually gives more than the other. He asked me that if I found a person who was nice to me, would I be nice in return.. and my answer, of course, was: "of course!". I would just hope that they don't change for worse in the future. My friend concluded that I needed a NICE man, but yet, he failed to tell me where to find them..haha. In any case, I know for a fact that I can't fall for the first "nice" guy that comes along saying that he'll go to the moon and back just for me... furthermore... will bring down the stars for me... haha... guys: that doesn't always work! Like a good friend of mine (K) said "actions speak louder than words."
My friend, I wish it were that simple, and I wish it was just the fact that only some men are azzholz that bemuses me. I could go on & on..... there are those "nice" guys who fall for the "hot" girl, give her everything, then he gets his heart broken; also those that hit women yet say they love them; those who cheat on their wife with someone younger, etc.
I just don't understand. It's ironic -- they're confusing, yet I don't know what this world would be like without them. But seriously: "Where are the REAL MEN out there???!!!"
It just can't be!! I'm perplexed! I would like to know why God created men --- or the so called "men." Maybe it was just to complicate women's lives. Don't get me wrong -- I like men, I love men, but yet -- they confuse me! They, they're just so... so ...
Today I had a conversation with a friend after he read my away messge on the AIM that said: "I don't understand men. I don't understand school. Is it b/c they're both full of sH1t. Yeah...I think that's why. Where are the REAL MEN out there?!" Apparently he took offense to my message, then he pretended to teach me about guys and love! Haaaa!
He defended his position as a male & said that not all men are azzhols & that there are many nice men out there. It's just that girlz go for the "hot" guyz not the good onez because the "hot" guys are the azzholz and the girlz like to be mistreated & hurt. Of course I said that's bull -- we grlz don't enjoy mistreated! I argued that a lot of men act nice in the beginning but in reality most are azzhols in the inside. You just never know until you get to know them for some time. They only act nice until they have you in the palm of their hands and baaaamm! -- they do whatever they want to do with you and you can't do anything about it. In most relationships, I believe, one person usually gives more than the other. He asked me that if I found a person who was nice to me, would I be nice in return.. and my answer, of course, was: "of course!". I would just hope that they don't change for worse in the future. My friend concluded that I needed a NICE man, but yet, he failed to tell me where to find them..haha. In any case, I know for a fact that I can't fall for the first "nice" guy that comes along saying that he'll go to the moon and back just for me... furthermore... will bring down the stars for me... haha... guys: that doesn't always work! Like a good friend of mine (K) said "actions speak louder than words."
My friend, I wish it were that simple, and I wish it was just the fact that only some men are azzholz that bemuses me. I could go on & on..... there are those "nice" guys who fall for the "hot" girl, give her everything, then he gets his heart broken; also those that hit women yet say they love them; those who cheat on their wife with someone younger, etc.
I just don't understand. It's ironic -- they're confusing, yet I don't know what this world would be like without them. But seriously: "Where are the REAL MEN out there???!!!"
posted by MexicanMuse @ 4/29/2005 05:25:00 PM
5 comments:
At 4/29/2005 04:17:00 PM,
Pal said…
YO SOY RE MEXICANOTAA!! ESTOY APRENDIENDO INGLES,SI COMPRENDI TU POST STE.. AL 70% Y SI SI SON MUY COMPLICADOS :D ELLOS SON LOS Q NOS CONFUNDEN A UNA Y UNA NO TIENE MAS Q SER BONITA ;) YOU KNOW.. JEJEJE
BESOS Y ABRAZOS GUAPA!!
PASA UN FIN RICO Y DISFRUTABLE.
CUIDAT MUCHO Y STAMOS EN CONTACTO SANGRIENTOOO--- GRRRRRRRR
ADIOS MEROOL :D
At 4/29/2005 06:14:00 PM,
Mo Than 30 Clients Served said…
A ver... sorry por entrometerme, pero, me siento "medio" tentado a salvar la reputacion de los hombres buenos que hay por ahi... Primero, yo no soy bueno, yo soy un perro maldito que nunca debio haber nacido, la neta, porque, yo soy directo, no me gusta andar con cositas de que: "si, yo te quiero y guachugua" nel, Yo les digo: me gustas, hay manera? segun yo, en mi opinion personal, eso es lo que mas les gusta a las mujeres... la sinceridad... Ya, hasta ahi... la neta, si hay hombres buenos, yo no conozco ninguno, pero de que los hay los hay... Igual, ud, a mi ver, ya respondio su pregunta: "Los hombres se van por la "buena", y las mujeres por el "bueno"... Si uds se equivocan, ps denos chance tambien a nosotros, no?... Igual, hay mas tiempo que vida... Saludos!
At 4/29/2005 07:08:00 PM,
Ivanovish said…
wha?...ora si no entendi ni maiz paloma! ...deja mejor me voy al harmon hall pa estudiar inglis patinglish!
At 4/30/2005 01:58:00 PM,
younglazarus12 said…
Ok, so I'm not gonna defend all men out there (we can be pretty frustrating), but there are at least a few that really are good and not just putting on a show. I say so because some of them are good friends of mine. Unfortunately, I don't have a magic formula for figuring out who they are. But you do seem to have the right idea already-actions speak so much louder than words. And as far as words go, it's sweet if a guy actually wants to give you the stars, but I probably wouldn't trust anyone who claimed they actually would. I think that real guys are honest about what they have to offer, even if it's just their heart.
At 5/10/2005 10:04:00 AM,
Anonymous said…
HAHAHA Maria youre simply hilarious. There's a such thing as a guy whos hot and nice *ahem* you should know that. But once someone is hurt badly they should learn from their experience and not let it haunt them forever after. It happens to everyone...but it should just make us stronger, not weaker. People like to push to the limit, to see how far they can go, how much they can get away with. If we set limits and dont break...then it's a whole lot harder to get hurt.
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